Victim of Life

Victim of life

Have you ever imagined how your life would have been like if you were able to control everything that goes in and out of your life. If you had the power to even choose the kind of life you desire to live. How things would have been like?. We are victims of life.

How you wish it had been like:

Some people are born with a golden spoon on their mouths, they look like they have everything sorted out for them. These peoples lives look perfect from our naked eyes and in most cases we wish to be like them have the things they have. It is not wrong to wish that you were born in a rich family with both parents who owned big businesses they inherited from their parents. This is a kind of life that look perfect because that child growing up already have his/ her future planned according to his needs especially financial needs.
When he goes to University they already have their own apartment and a car. This person is not worried about anything because when they graduate from higher education institutions they are guaranteed a position in a family business. Even when it comes to marriage they won’t struggle. Culturally they know who they going to marry.
How it turned out to be:
You are born in a family with both parents who don’t love each other. They are always fighting and shouting one another in front of you . The kids that grown up in this family are so broken they wish parents were dead.
On the other hand there is a child who is raised by relatives or strangers this child would trade herself to experience mothers love, because she can only imagine it . She has never and will never taste it while someone is a burden to his parents he is the course all trouble the family is experiencing.  Someone is raised by a single mother , his mother works hard to provide for him but life would have been much better if his father married his mother not the other woman who doesn’t even want him to come and visit his father. This child would not go to University because his step mom won’t allow his father to give him money for studies.
There are many examples of what we go through. Some sleep their way to big job positions and some are sexually abused by strangers and family members.

The actual fact:

The truth remains, everyone is facing a hardship whether rich or poor. It’s the way life is, we are always challenged .We have different issues some have financial, family, marriage, physical and health issues. What I want to emphasize is that life it self is a challenge no one is having it easy that is why we say it goes on. No hardship is eternal we learn to live with them if we fix our eyes in the bright side with faith that no matter what pain you’ve been through, tears will dry and broken hearts will heal.

The end:

We are more than conqueror’s, despite what we face today we owe it to our selves to rise above circumstances life throw at us, because we were never created to live depressed, defeated, guilty, condemned, ashamed or unworthy. We were created to be victorious.